Last night, while showering, I thought of a very nerdy thing that pretty much summed up how I felt this past week. Let my mood be a sin function (disregarding all the tiny fluctuations). This week probably was going from sin 0 to sin of 3pi/2, and today, I'm feeling more positive than yesterday, so I'm heading toward sin 2pi, making one full circle with a period of a week! whee.
I have come to the conclusion that I lack relaxation during sleep. That's why my moods are all over the place. So dangerous. But one thing is for sure, when the sun is up and smiling at Earth, I feel pleasant. And when the moon is up, well... I feel not as pleasant. tahaha. I'm really incapable of being a late-night person.
Anyway, happy May! :O
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Friday, April 30, 2010
LXII : Contradictions
Today, or more like these past 3ish days, I've been feeling like I'm so contradictory.. leaning toward hypocritical a bit probably.
1) Why are people so revolved around money sometimes? I thought myself okay with not having the lavishness of the rich, but I really find myself thinking a lot about how much can I save up/earn/keep in my bank account. In the beginning, I thought I would be fine just using my apartment as (a very expensive) storage place since my lease doesn't end until July 28. But now, I'm thinking I should have looked for subletters earlier and gotten someone to take my spot for at least a month or 1.5 months. That would save me much. I even juggled with the idea of asking if it's possible to terminate my lease early... but now I wonder why I didn't ask my landlord earlier? And then I thought, if I did terminate it early, the deposit (which was 1.5 month's rent) would be theirs, which is less than what I would be paying if I kept until the end of the lease. So that's good, but then I keep thinking "would that mean the other three roomies will have to pay more?" which leads me to another point....
2) Why do people think so much about themselves? I thought I was the type to place others before myself because by helping them out, I feel happy. So I guess in a way that does seem like I'm doing everything for myself in the end. These past few days I've just been feeling like I should only think about what would benefit me, and not the other people in my apartment, though I can't say they acted without thinking about my interests. Let me back up a bit. Two of my roommates found two subletters last week for the summer and they posted our apartment as 2 singles. And the subletters' pay will be going toward their rent, which means me and roomie 1 pay our $625 each month while roomie 2 and 3 pay $25/month + utilities. The two people they found are not strangers, which is what I was hoping for. I keep thinking it makes sense that they should pay less since they worked hard at finding people to sublet, but should they really be the ones to keep everything? Why can't the total rent go down just a bit anyway? But, I keep thinking, maybe I should just terminate my end of the lease... if it even works that way. But I really want to find someone to sublet to. Or I could just see my bank account deplete further (loans suck).
3) Why don't people tell me what's bothering them? I don't think I do that much... actually I know I don't tend to want to tell others about what's on my mind because I don't want to bother them with my issues. I still think "why add to their list of life issues?" even though I understand how friends wouldn't mind at all. In fact, I know they would want to know about what's upsetting or bothering me, but I can't help going along with the thought that if I can lessen the burden on anyone, then why not do that. Job-finding is going to be terrible since I find internship-hunting overly stressful already. I'm too greedy--not being able to pick which internship to do and so wanting to do both even though I know it's impossible. As a result, I've been pushing back deciding whether to confirm the current offer while I hope for an offer from another. They're both good, and I'm sure I'll enjoy either way, but why can't I settle on one already?!
4) Why do we tend to say how doomed or badly we are/did? I find myself going along with the flow: "ah, there's still tomorrow to study/finish writing," "I changed my answer to the wrong one at the last minute," "I had a 50-50 chance, and I chose the wrong one," etc. I always end up thinking to myself "what was the point of that?" To feel comforted in the fact that others say that way too, even if they don't truly feel that way? I always thought I'll be happy as long as I do better than last time, but I think I'm always inwardly hoping I also do better than others...
5) I believe people can achieve what they set to achieve. Yet I keep doubting myself, keep worrying about the "what ifs" that could happen, keep dwelling on the thoughts of what others would think, and keep believing I didn't give it my all. I play safe, and I don't take risks even though I know it's what I want to do. I just pretend I'm daring enough to do stuff... but that's only in front of others. What about in front of myself?
...I think I'm just stressing out before finals, but I've been stuck in this thought mode from early this week and it's not getting any better. I can't wait for finals to be over and I can't wait to be in summer vacation. I'm just hoping this phase will pass smoothly, and I won't have this constant feeling of pushing everyone who is worried away. I've been wanting to distance myself from everyone, but I know that wouldn't help. laaa....
All in all, I keep wondering, "Is this normal?"
By the way, last day of classes. woot.
1) Why are people so revolved around money sometimes? I thought myself okay with not having the lavishness of the rich, but I really find myself thinking a lot about how much can I save up/earn/keep in my bank account. In the beginning, I thought I would be fine just using my apartment as (a very expensive) storage place since my lease doesn't end until July 28. But now, I'm thinking I should have looked for subletters earlier and gotten someone to take my spot for at least a month or 1.5 months. That would save me much. I even juggled with the idea of asking if it's possible to terminate my lease early... but now I wonder why I didn't ask my landlord earlier? And then I thought, if I did terminate it early, the deposit (which was 1.5 month's rent) would be theirs, which is less than what I would be paying if I kept until the end of the lease. So that's good, but then I keep thinking "would that mean the other three roomies will have to pay more?" which leads me to another point....
2) Why do people think so much about themselves? I thought I was the type to place others before myself because by helping them out, I feel happy. So I guess in a way that does seem like I'm doing everything for myself in the end. These past few days I've just been feeling like I should only think about what would benefit me, and not the other people in my apartment, though I can't say they acted without thinking about my interests. Let me back up a bit. Two of my roommates found two subletters last week for the summer and they posted our apartment as 2 singles. And the subletters' pay will be going toward their rent, which means me and roomie 1 pay our $625 each month while roomie 2 and 3 pay $25/month + utilities. The two people they found are not strangers, which is what I was hoping for. I keep thinking it makes sense that they should pay less since they worked hard at finding people to sublet, but should they really be the ones to keep everything? Why can't the total rent go down just a bit anyway? But, I keep thinking, maybe I should just terminate my end of the lease... if it even works that way. But I really want to find someone to sublet to. Or I could just see my bank account deplete further (loans suck).
3) Why don't people tell me what's bothering them? I don't think I do that much... actually I know I don't tend to want to tell others about what's on my mind because I don't want to bother them with my issues. I still think "why add to their list of life issues?" even though I understand how friends wouldn't mind at all. In fact, I know they would want to know about what's upsetting or bothering me, but I can't help going along with the thought that if I can lessen the burden on anyone, then why not do that. Job-finding is going to be terrible since I find internship-hunting overly stressful already. I'm too greedy--not being able to pick which internship to do and so wanting to do both even though I know it's impossible. As a result, I've been pushing back deciding whether to confirm the current offer while I hope for an offer from another. They're both good, and I'm sure I'll enjoy either way, but why can't I settle on one already?!
4) Why do we tend to say how doomed or badly we are/did? I find myself going along with the flow: "ah, there's still tomorrow to study/finish writing," "I changed my answer to the wrong one at the last minute," "I had a 50-50 chance, and I chose the wrong one," etc. I always end up thinking to myself "what was the point of that?" To feel comforted in the fact that others say that way too, even if they don't truly feel that way? I always thought I'll be happy as long as I do better than last time, but I think I'm always inwardly hoping I also do better than others...
5) I believe people can achieve what they set to achieve. Yet I keep doubting myself, keep worrying about the "what ifs" that could happen, keep dwelling on the thoughts of what others would think, and keep believing I didn't give it my all. I play safe, and I don't take risks even though I know it's what I want to do. I just pretend I'm daring enough to do stuff... but that's only in front of others. What about in front of myself?
...I think I'm just stressing out before finals, but I've been stuck in this thought mode from early this week and it's not getting any better. I can't wait for finals to be over and I can't wait to be in summer vacation. I'm just hoping this phase will pass smoothly, and I won't have this constant feeling of pushing everyone who is worried away. I've been wanting to distance myself from everyone, but I know that wouldn't help. laaa....
All in all, I keep wondering, "Is this normal?"
By the way, last day of classes. woot.
Friday, April 23, 2010
LXI : Last Semester of Undergrad - Week 14 and 15
Tuesday (4/13), I watched Mononoke Hime in Japanese Anime class, but we didn't finish it. So I found the whole movie uploaded somewhere on the internet and finished it. It probably remains my favorite film by Miyazaki. The first time I ever watched it, I remember suddenly realizing how there could be a perfectly well-written story with no villain. Well, I guess no villain as I'm used to stories and animated films having. On top of that, I realized how people and nature keep clashing. In addition to loving the story and the characters, I love love LOVE the music. Hisaishi is amazing at composing music that touches the heart, at least it touches mine. Mononoke Hime, Spirited Away, Kikujiro, Laputa, etc. I think genius means being able to reach through to someone's heart, getting passed all walls that could be there and hitting the emotions. In one word: WOW.
I think every time I've watched Mononoke Hime, I've always lingered on it for the next three days or so. It has that strong of an impact on my mind. Truly amazing. Anyway, these two weeks were "rest" weeks because I didn't have any exams. But then, it also meant I was supposed to catch up on work. Of course, I am still behind, but I have a very good excuse: my birthday!!
Saturday was hanging out with Phoebe, Steph, Lint, and Monica at the Stinking Rose and pigging out on their delicious bread. We demolished the first plate when it came and shocked the waiter refilling the bread when he gave us the second plate. It was hilarious because after probably 4 plates, he came over and was like "oh..." and walked away cuz we weren't done yet. Apparently, he only took the plate when there was 1 or 2 left. And by plate 4, we finally decided to "eat smart" and wait for our meals. We had an appetizer (garlic fries ish) that kept making us lose our focus to leave room for the real meal. But oh well, it was a fun dinner. Garlic ice cream is pretty delicious. Like tofu cheesecake (Hayward!). ahh.. lovely. And miso ice cream (Japan...).
Sunday was dimsumming with roomies and Lint. We wanted to go to Yi Mei, but this is what we found when we got there:
It was sad for us, but what made me feel even sadder was seeing two more Asian vans driven by daddies pass by slowly and seeing a grandpa and daddy walk up to the sign. The families that go to the restaurant weekly must've been more devastated than we were. In the end, we went to Elite, right next to Yi Mei. It was a bit pricey, but it's worth it because the portions are big! I very much enjoyed stuffing myself full with their dimsum.
Monday was dinnering with a few of the baddy team members. We ate at a Taiwanese restaurant called Pa Pa Walk. Very delicious and, once again, I pretty much over-filled my stomach. I loved these signs they had for the kitchen and the bathroom:
But food didn't stop there. We went to Kelvin's apartment afterward and Irene brought me a huge cake!
I didn't get pictures, but I blow torched (for creme brulee) the Hello Kitty candle and then literally defaced it. Seriously, sometimes I think I should get over my dislike for Hello Kitty, but I sleep with a Pochacco blanket every night so how can I? We played BANG! (they had to teach me first) until around 1am. What in the world is the renegade supposed to win at that game?! I managed to trick one vice into killing the other vice, but then by the time it gets down to the sheriff, vice, and renegade, I think we pretty much know who's who. -,- Unless the renegade is persuasive enough to get the sheriff to believe he is the vice... I have no such skills. *sad* There was one surprise for my birthday. Jeremy managed to stuff a beer can into my baddy bag without my noticing, and I only found it when I got back to my apartment and unloaded my bag. Now I have a random beer can in the fridge, which I honestly forgot about until yesterday... whoops.
Tuesday was interesting. It started off with Lynn giving me a shirt and my mom sending me package that had a shirt from my sis and Helen (among other lovely things). Shirts together:
Because I slept so late on Monday and couldn't fall asleep until 4am because I was thinking about my first phone interview (for a biotech company internship), I convinced myself that I would skip Japanese Anime class. So I did. And it was wonderful, though I got up early enough that I could have rushed to class... nah. I went to research, but got out early because I told Russell it was my birthday. It was funny conversation:
M: Can I leave early today?
R: Of course not! You have to stay the whole time.
M: It's my birthday.
R: What? What are you doing here! Get out of here!
I'm going to miss researching with the group. I know they'll probably all finish their PhDs soon and whatnot, so eventually we'll disperse. But sometimes, can't time just feel longer when we're having fun? Anyway, dinner was with Kit, who took me to an El Salvadorian restaurant near campus. It was surprisingly filling and delicious, but I still love my Asian foods.
So birthday was super awesome and I'm glad I got to spend it with so many different people I love hanging out with. Love love love.
Now there is one week of classes left and then finals. My last ones of my undergraduate career. I will miss it, but look forward to Pharmacy school! I get excited when I talk to pharm students. So much to know! So much I want to do! Little my little, life will fall into place. But for now (I always have to pull myself back into the NOW), I will go at the pace I am comfortable with.
I think every time I've watched Mononoke Hime, I've always lingered on it for the next three days or so. It has that strong of an impact on my mind. Truly amazing. Anyway, these two weeks were "rest" weeks because I didn't have any exams. But then, it also meant I was supposed to catch up on work. Of course, I am still behind, but I have a very good excuse: my birthday!!
Saturday was hanging out with Phoebe, Steph, Lint, and Monica at the Stinking Rose and pigging out on their delicious bread. We demolished the first plate when it came and shocked the waiter refilling the bread when he gave us the second plate. It was hilarious because after probably 4 plates, he came over and was like "oh..." and walked away cuz we weren't done yet. Apparently, he only took the plate when there was 1 or 2 left. And by plate 4, we finally decided to "eat smart" and wait for our meals. We had an appetizer (garlic fries ish) that kept making us lose our focus to leave room for the real meal. But oh well, it was a fun dinner. Garlic ice cream is pretty delicious. Like tofu cheesecake (Hayward!). ahh.. lovely. And miso ice cream (Japan...).
Sunday was dimsumming with roomies and Lint. We wanted to go to Yi Mei, but this is what we found when we got there:
It was sad for us, but what made me feel even sadder was seeing two more Asian vans driven by daddies pass by slowly and seeing a grandpa and daddy walk up to the sign. The families that go to the restaurant weekly must've been more devastated than we were. In the end, we went to Elite, right next to Yi Mei. It was a bit pricey, but it's worth it because the portions are big! I very much enjoyed stuffing myself full with their dimsum.
Monday was dinnering with a few of the baddy team members. We ate at a Taiwanese restaurant called Pa Pa Walk. Very delicious and, once again, I pretty much over-filled my stomach. I loved these signs they had for the kitchen and the bathroom:
But food didn't stop there. We went to Kelvin's apartment afterward and Irene brought me a huge cake!
I didn't get pictures, but I blow torched (for creme brulee) the Hello Kitty candle and then literally defaced it. Seriously, sometimes I think I should get over my dislike for Hello Kitty, but I sleep with a Pochacco blanket every night so how can I? We played BANG! (they had to teach me first) until around 1am. What in the world is the renegade supposed to win at that game?! I managed to trick one vice into killing the other vice, but then by the time it gets down to the sheriff, vice, and renegade, I think we pretty much know who's who. -,- Unless the renegade is persuasive enough to get the sheriff to believe he is the vice... I have no such skills. *sad* There was one surprise for my birthday. Jeremy managed to stuff a beer can into my baddy bag without my noticing, and I only found it when I got back to my apartment and unloaded my bag. Now I have a random beer can in the fridge, which I honestly forgot about until yesterday... whoops.
Tuesday was interesting. It started off with Lynn giving me a shirt and my mom sending me package that had a shirt from my sis and Helen (among other lovely things). Shirts together:
Because I slept so late on Monday and couldn't fall asleep until 4am because I was thinking about my first phone interview (for a biotech company internship), I convinced myself that I would skip Japanese Anime class. So I did. And it was wonderful, though I got up early enough that I could have rushed to class... nah. I went to research, but got out early because I told Russell it was my birthday. It was funny conversation:
M: Can I leave early today?
R: Of course not! You have to stay the whole time.
M: It's my birthday.
R: What? What are you doing here! Get out of here!
I'm going to miss researching with the group. I know they'll probably all finish their PhDs soon and whatnot, so eventually we'll disperse. But sometimes, can't time just feel longer when we're having fun? Anyway, dinner was with Kit, who took me to an El Salvadorian restaurant near campus. It was surprisingly filling and delicious, but I still love my Asian foods.
So birthday was super awesome and I'm glad I got to spend it with so many different people I love hanging out with. Love love love.
Now there is one week of classes left and then finals. My last ones of my undergraduate career. I will miss it, but look forward to Pharmacy school! I get excited when I talk to pharm students. So much to know! So much I want to do! Little my little, life will fall into place. But for now (I always have to pull myself back into the NOW), I will go at the pace I am comfortable with.
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